Simple Question, not so simple answer. Bear with me girls, because I am about to have a rant here.
This week I had my first encounter with an anonymous blog troll. Urban Dictionary says a troll is:
"One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument. (please note females of this species are usually thought to be kinder or more intelligent, but still fairly hideous). * Ha, I beg to differ...
I would like to define a troll (in the blog world) as a completely self conscious, insecure jealous beotch who has nothing better to do with her time than read the blogs of others and leave rude, nasty, anonymous comments in order to somehow make her feel superior.
Please find Miss IceQueen's comment below:
Dear Ice Queen, and all other trolls out there:
Are you serious? I find it comical you have nothing better to do with your time. it is simple, if you don't like my blog, guess what, there is a very simple solution. Don't read it. Isn't it funny how that works? This is my blog, I started it for ME and to connect with other girls living similar and even not so similar lives. I am not filling up your newsfeed on Facebook airing my dirty laundry or latest hair poofing tips, but yeah I talk about whatever i want here because I can. And you are more than welcome to click that little 'x' at the top of your screen and continue stalking your ex's new girlfriend on Facebook, or whatever it is you use to fill your time. In the meantime, i will continue to write, continue to connect with great girls, and continue to build this website. When I publish my book I will be sure to send you a copy, since I am so uneducated. ;)
Also, in what way was me wanting to start a blog meet up, and offering to help everyone with their hair at all self-centered? I mean common, could you have picked a post where I was talking about my fingernails or something to call me self-centered? Ha, I found that pretty silly.
Sincerely PLL
;) now seriously girls... I was pissed at first over this, then I just laughed.
I guess when you start getting hate mail, that means you've made it right? ;) haha. I kid. I just find it ridiculous. Clearly Miss IceQueen has a few screws lose. I don't even WANT to talk about what her hair must look like ;) I feel fairly sure she does not have a blog, because she clearly doesn't understand what blogging is all about. The blogging community is one of the neatest things I have ever been a part of. I love it. I love meeting new people, I love finding support from other girls who are in similar places in their lives, and I love hearing how in some small way, my life and experiences help other people.
I was just floored so much by this crazy whack chic's comment. I mean this is suppose to be a community of support and a place to connect to others and build friendships. It takes a lot of courage to put your whole life out there for others to critique. At the end of the day this blog still is, and has always been for ME and to document my life. I don't care if you don't like it, I don't care sweetheart that you even said those things to me, I laughed honestly, because I know they are not true. And I can assure you peach, that I have a lot more people out there who would probably kick your ass for being mean to me! Ha ha ;)
In conclusion, I want to end things on a positive note. I want to say thank you. THANK YOU, to those of you have taken the time to leave sweet, heartfelt comments and send emails over this past year. I wish I could post every one of them. I'd say if this is the first mean thing someone has said to me so far, I am doing all right, because the out pour of love, and sincere touching comments I get truly make me smile so much.
So thank you for reading, and thank you for being so kind, sweet and supportive.
If I could have a glass of pinot grigio with all of you, I would. ;)
xoxo