Yoooou guessed it.
Well it wasn’t a shock to me when the most responses to my “what do you wanna know” questions centered around my love life. HA.
I get it. I know what I do to you guys, I introduce someone, he is around for a few posts and then he’s gone and you are like say what… what happened to that one guy?!?
I so sowwy.
It’s just hard, this dating thing.
Hence why I usually don’t even mention da boys on here, cause unless I am sure they are gonna be around for awhile, it just causes too much confusion, ya feel me?
So let’s get down to the bottom of things here.
Y’all asked about Adam. The sweet, amazing guy who took me to Meet Miss Underwood. Remember him? Look at those dimples by the way ;) Yes he is a cutie.
Well Adam and I have been friends for a long time, since the high school days. And we are still friends now. Things just didn’t work out, like they don’t sometimes. Which was unfortunate, because he is a wonderful person, and I adore his family! But he has moved on and is happy now. So I am happy for him. :)
Then there were some questions on this guy. Remember him?
Oh what’s that, you don’t remember him? Maybe that is because he was in and out so fast I almost forgot his name. Kidding, but he did pull a fancy shmancy disappearing act, and is apparently now dating some “total opposite of LouLou” kinda girl if you know what I’m sayin… perhaps of the gold digging variety? Hey, I am just telling ya word on the street…. ;) He also de-friended me on facebook. WHAT? Who does that? haha, my theory you ask? He was already seeing other Miss-already-been-divorced-twice when he started seeing me... hence the shade ball de-friend move. I'm thinking I dodged a bullet on this one...
Then there were some questions about Sir Edwin. Remember Mark?
Sweetest thing. We had a lot of fun together. Possibly our biggest problem? We spent too much time going out and tearin’ up the bar scene, instead of genuinely getting to know each other I do believe. We still talk, and are still friends. Very happy for that, because I really enjoyed Mark! Wonderful guy.
A lot of you will probably be like who is this next kid?
But in the spirit of updating on boys I have blogged about, I figured I would include him. Insert Lance. I haven’t spoken to Lance probably in almost a year, and that my friends, would not be my doing. But I guess I get it. Sort of. But I will say this: I have never been the type of person to not remain friendly with people that I have dated, and that have been a big part of my life. However I suppose some people are different. If you need that refresher… here ya go. He is happy now, and from what I can only assume, is probably not far off from some bling bling if you know what I am sayin. And I do wish him the best. :)
Then there were some questions about Reed. Remember him?
You better remember Reed cause I have talked about him a lot! HA. Well he is like in a weird way 98% the reason I started blogging, and ironically he doesn’t even really like my blog, ha. Oh well, funny the way things happen sometimes. Anyways, we really don’t talk much anymore. I think it needed to be that way. He came home this past Christmas, and that is the last I saw him. It was pretty clear things were just not going to work out, and I knew in my heart that the only way we could both move on is to just not talk for awhile. He called a few weeks ago when my papa died. Which I really appreciated.
Do I still love him? I think I always will.
Do I feel like we had closure? Not sure I ever will.
I still talk to his mom and sis all the time, I love love LOVE them. Even though I don’t think I will ever be a part of their family, they are so much a part of who I am and I am so thankful to have them!
ANNNND last but not least.
The clutch guy, as y’all have so endearingly named him. HA.
The story was straight out of a movie am I right? The secret admirer clutch to work, etc. He was straight out of a fairy tale too might I ad. One of the most genuinely nice, giving people I have ever met. He would always show up with a gift, flowers etc. We went out for a few weeks, and I had a great time with him. He is SO sweet, and so caring, but sometimes it just isn’t all there, and it wasn’t for me. Not every story is a love story, and this one unfortunately didn’t play out the way y’all probably wanted it to, ha! So sorry to disappoint! But I will say this, we will probably see him on TV one day… he is super involved with EVERYTHING. So if in ten years you hear me say, “OMG… that man running for president… THAT’S the clutch guy” don’t be alarmed.
Hope I answered to your satisfaction :)
That pretty much covers any boy I have mentioned on here. If I forgot someone, please feel free to call me on it.
Still here. Still single. Although I have been going on some dates with some cuties, nothing serious to report yet.
xoxo